Dating cancelled date
Maybe it’s that generally speaking, she’s generally speaking.
No matter WHAT it is, here’s the deal: If you don’t get along, why go through with the date?
Simply call out the gorilla in the room: You’re sure she’s a “great person” or something, but the two of you just seem to be missing each other.
Be the man here and save her the (further) discomfort of bringing it up herself. Tell her she’s very “nice”, but that you don’t think the two of you are a match.
She appreciates that and seems excited to join you. She’s really feeling down and hasn’t been out in a while.” If you say “yes” to this, you may as well have agreed to her bringing a posse of bodyguards, a couple of blue-haired chaperones and a rocket scientist along too.
Let’s face it, if you’re dreading the date more than you’re excited about it-primarily because you’re 100% sure the conversation is going to be awkward, at best-it’s time to grow some self-respect and cancel the date. Yeah, this is a variation on the “it’s not you, it’s me” concept, but it’s also probably true.Basically, guys who stand women up find something better to do, get distracted, and are not interested in the fact that we might be spending hours making sure a million tiny things are perfect. Here are my tips: You need to seem like you’re too distracted because you have so much going on. You were just too busy to even remember you had a date. Welcome to Love Shack.org; an interpersonal relationship advice and assistance center providing a forum to confront personal conflicts, promote participation in self-discovery and responsibility, and to share dating tips, love advice, and platonic relationship resources.And as you know by now, red flags do not a pleasant dating experience make.By the way, the same holds true if a “blind date” is in the works.