21 year old dating 30 year old who is amanda crew dating
After only the first date he would call me non stop, text me, email me.He bought chocolate on the first date, and flowers on the second date, and has talked to me a lot about starting a relationship.Kind of a big gap for the ages you are, but he might genuinely like you.I say give him the benefit of the doubt, but if you're uncomfortable with the showering of attention, I'd let him know to scale it back a bit. All the non-stop texting, calling, flowers and candy would throw me off a bit. I have to have my breathing room, my little bit of space, even when I'm in a deep relationship.The age isn't nearly so much an issue as the smothering. I see red flags here and it is not the age difference..is his sweet talking, the gifts, the Las Vegas trip he wants you to go on with him, the constant communication so early on.
Although it can work, a woman in her 30's is at a much different stage in life than that of a man that is in his early 20's.Hey all I am 31 years old, I had been dating a 21 year old for a few months, at first he and I were friends(I had an immediate connection with him) for like 6 months, then I broke up with the 34 year old guy I was with, and he and I started hanging out. In addition, men mature slower than women (no offense men, just a fact of life) ..I told him this could not be serious we could just explore, but 2 months into it he asked me to be with him, and I said I had to really think about it.....3 months into it my feelings have grown for him.... Why did you break up with him if you were in love with him? I'm in the exact same boat, 31 & falling for a 21 year old who seems more mature than most men I've met, I'm an independent successful woman that never thought I'd be in this situation, most men are intimidated by my strong personality and independence, but this 21 year old makes me feel intimidated like He breaks my guards and makes me feel like he has some overpowering connection that I can't explain. She some time confused because she say it is nor right i say with you, you need to find some on in your age.I get a feeling he's been on the dating sites for years.He said he has no time for other dating methods, but if that were true he wouldn't have all this time to be texting, calling, e-mailing, etc.